Now days looks bank balance and being a dude is something which attracts a girl more towards a guy whyyyyy?

I don't know about all girls but I can tell you my view
When I'm considering a serious relationship with a man, I look for everything and more than what you said, but my reasons for preferring a man with money,
Every girl dreams of the big white wedding but what do we dream of after that?? Babys lol
If your man can not finacially support you, than he definatly cant support a child, which means you have to work, which means someone else is raising your child, which is far from the dream most girls have, you say that love priorities have changed, why?? because the increase in sexually explicate ads, drug use, and infidelity rates skyrocketing, leaving both men and women with a strong doubt in the term tell death due us part. Im sure you would love more wholesome relationships, but as a man, would you be willing to let go of the very things that influence a corrupt state of mind, such as strip clubs, drugs, ****?? and if you go far enough back in time, its just a phase,
1940s-1950s= woman stayed home men went to work
1960s-1970s= women rights men went to war women went to work
1980s-1990s=women equality to men women expected to get the same as men
2000s= men want an independent women women want to be independent men call women gold diggers and women want to be tooken care of
long story short find a women who suites you there are plenty out there

It boils down to innate instinct. Females look for mates that display masculine characteristics such as aggression or sometimes obsessiveness as they are protective traits. Females subconsciously assess whether the male will be adequate to protect them & their offspring.


Whilst being loving, gentle, caring etc are desirable, they are generically feminine traits & would make you less appealing unless the female has had bad experiences with 'true' males.

Today in our civilised (using that term loosely) men cannot remain rough & rowdy, having a bank balance shows the female you can cater for her & your children & hence showcases your suitability & maturity when deciding on who to be with.

If you're a successful, financially stable, attractive guy AND you are choosing to be with 'her' - you're decision has credibility based on your perceived success.

It's also a very big compliment for her.

Hope the above helps in some way...

You are describing shallow girls! Not every girl is like that, I'm not like that.
Yeah I wouldnlike to go out on dates to the cinema every mow and then with my boyfriend but I pay for myself.
I reckon you are going for the wrong girl. Go for the girl who likes you for you! Who laughs at your jokes and is there when you need her.
Peoples priorities change all the time. Some girls want a guy who looks good, they don't care about the personality. Other girls go for money as they want nice things and they want to be looked after but more Importanly everyone has a type, people deny it all you like but deep down everyone has a type and that could just be the type of guys some girls go for,
You seem to go for girls who want material things over love and romance

First of all, girls want the whole package. A guy is caring, compassionate, loyal but we also want a guy who is motivated and usually the guys with money are motivated. It's good to be around a successful man especially when you yourself are a successful woman. It's important for a woman's lifestyle and future.

not all girls are like that buddy..would be wrong to generalize this thing for all the girls..i know most girls are like that only..but not all..there are girls who still value the meaning of true love..
n the girls u are talking about..they actually are not interested in having a loving n caring life partner..they are only interested in having someone whom they can flaunt in front of others n try to make others jealous by doing so..
hope this helped.. :)

really not every girl is like that im not thats shallow ho girls but loking good isnst a bad thing either